The 4-week 1:1 program is designed to help you date smarter, not harder. Create a dating strategy personalized for you and your dating goals. Stop listening to the internet’s dating “rules” and kick dating burnout to the curb. This is where you take back control of your dating life.
Anti-Burnout Dating
Sick of constantly feeling burnt out from dating?
In just four weeks, you’ll create a strategy that seamlessly fits into your life. Dating will no longer feel like a chore, but manageable and enjoyable. Through 1:1 date coaching sessions, Anti-Burnout Dating will equip you with personalized dating tools that minimize dating burnout and help you find like-minded connections. Enjoy your life without letting dating control your mood.
Why this program
Dating can feel like a vicious cycle. Constantly scrolling and going on date after date, only to be left feeling fatigued with no real prospects. So, you almost give up, stop dating, or worse, settle for a situationship that doesn’t fulfill you.
But it doesn't have to feel this way.
You can learn to date in a way that feels good, lets you enjoy other parts of your life, and meet exciting, new people. That’s why I created the Anti-Burnout Dating to help you set the foundation for a prosperous dating life.
One that attracts the relationship you’re dating for, and most importantly, doesn’t burn you out in the process.
How it works
Week 1: Dating & Relationship Goals
In the first session, we’re getting clear on your needs, wants, and goals. Paired with my “Who Are They, Who Are We” exercise, we will uncover the type of relationship you‘re looking for. We’re setting intentions, clearing the cobwebs, and prioritizing traits, characteristics, and lifestyles to look for on dates and profiles that align with your goals.
Week 2: Dating App Reboot + Boundaries
We’re putting intentions into action! We’ll choose ONE dating app that aligns with you and your goals. Dating apps have their cons, but in this session, we learn how to use the pros to our advantage. Using success-proven techniques, we will refresh your pictures, prompts, and settings to attract like-minded matches. Before you start swiping, we will create an app strategy that doesn’t take over your dating life.
Week 3: Dating Strategy + Swipe Practice
Practice makes ~almost~ perfect! The focus of this session is to date smarter by using your time on the apps sufficiently. Stop missing potential quality matches and get from match to date as soon as possible. Now enters IRL dating… We’ll start finding missed opportunities to meet people in person, prioritize “ME” time, and learn how to implement them into your life in tandem with the dating app.
Week 4: Create a Sustianable Dating Plan
In our final session, we will make a dating plan for you to continue following in the coming months. Expect to take action in this session! We will complete the Mindful Dating Week Schedule exercise, book IRL events, check back in with the dating app strategy, and set foundational dating tools for you to use going forward.
Stay accountable after the program!
Stevie will check in with you via email a month after your final session to make sure you are sticking to your dating strategy and continuing to manage burnout.
Think of me as your accountability buddy!
Includes a FULL 1:1 dating app profile refresh!
In session two, work directly with Stevie using result-proven techniques to create a dating profile that attracts the people you’re swiping for! Update photos, prompts, and how you screen profiles to find quality matches that turn into dates.
The results?
A sustainable dating plan for dating apps and IRL dating that stops dating burnout!
Get clear on what you’re looking for
Increase # of quality matches
Identify best IRL dating spots
Respect your time in dating
Increase in dating joy!
Stop listening to the internet’s dating “rules” and start following your own!
I know this works because I tested it first.
Hi, I’m Stevie! Certified Dating Coach, Author, and creator of Anti-Burnout Dating. A dating strategy sourced from my personal dating experience. Through trial and error, I learned which tools worked, which didn’t, and which dating habits must be personalized for each dater.
I was a late bloomer, a casual dater, a situationshipper. I even dabbled in some FWBs. But my transition to long-term dating is what allowed me to find the relationship I was looking for.
Though I was the original tester of the exercises I teach in the program, I was not its only source. Anti-Burnout Dating is backed by in-field research, International Coaching Federation coaching approaches, and client success stories.
Anti-Burnout Dating is a dating strategy that helps you build the foundational tools to navigate the early stages of dating, enjoy dating, and avoid burnout.
Learn about our 8-week program, Slow Burn Dating, the method that makes these foundational tools a mindset shift.
PAY ONE TIME
$600
Pay in full
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PAYMENT PLAN
$300
Pay before week 1 and week 3
What you get access to:
~ 1 month of weekly 1:1 45-minute sessions with Stevie + accountability email check in after program
~ A live dating app profile refresh with Stevie
~ Between-session email support from Stevie for feedback, questions, and dating guidance
~ Actionable exercises and worksheets to use during and after the program
~ FOR LIFE access to dating resources, including IRL dating events and newsletters, community events, book recommendations, and dating app suggestions
A FREE 1:1 connection call with Stevie is required to personalize the program to your needs before you purchase!
FAQ
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Sessions are a safe space to work through dating challenges or situations. Each session begins with talking about your dating wins and/or your homework completed before the session. From there, we work through a current challenge or situation with perspective and mindfulness work. We create a personal goal and a realistic action plan for you to begin taking steps to work through the challenge. Throughout our sessions, you will develop new tools and shifting perspectives that help you develop stronger communication and advocacy skills.
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I am an ICF (International Coaching Federation) Trained and Certified Life Coach through the Academy of Creative Coaching. I received my Dating Coach Certification through Hart Coaching Academy.
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Client success is an accumulation of actions taken in their dating life and confidence-building. There is no guarantee that you will find your partner after a certain amount of time, or during our work together. However, I guarantee sessions will guide you to make decisions that will lead you to the relationship you’re dating for.
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Coaching is about taking action! Coaching helps you find the solution and develop an action plan to make your goals a reality. You will develop healthier dating practices and tools to help you overcome dating challenges, make choices that are best for you, and grow in confidence
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My sessions are primarily online via Zoom. However, I offer occasional in-person sessions when requested. I love meeting my clients in person and working with each individual to create a space that works best for them. If you’re interested in my in-person sessions, please let me know.
Not sure if the program is right for you?
Chat with Stevie anyway! It’s free to ask your questions and see if you’re a right fit for the program. Don’t want to chat 1:1? Email Stevie at stevie@thecityofdating.com.