Slow Burn Dating
The 8-week 1:1 date coaching program that teaches you a sustainable dating strategy to help you date smarter, communicate with confidence, and attract the relationship that aligns with you! No rulebook, just real results.
The fact that you are reading this is worthy of applause.
You deserve to enjoy your dating life, no matter where you’re at in your journey! If you’re finding us burnt out from dating or ready for a long-term relationship, but not sure how to find it, then you’re in the right place.
Do you ever ask yourself…
What I’m doing isn’t working.
How can I attract a long-term relationship?
I’m doom swiping.
Do I need to use dating apps? How can I meet someone in person?
I keep dating the same person and getting into situationships.
How do I get out of this negative dating pattern and find something real?
Then this program is for you.
We believe the way to a healthy relationship (and an enjoyable dating life!) looks different for everyone. Here, you will develop a personalized dating approach that creates solutions for your challenges. After 8 weeks, a healthy relationship won’t only feel possible but will become inevitable with the tools you create in this program.
Knowledge is power, and knowledge about ourselves is empowering.
You will learn how to put your best foot forward in dating. You’ll gain healthy communication tools to share your needs, express your intentions, and set date boundaries that keep you true to your dating purpose.
What’s inside the program
Week 1 though Week 4
First, we build foundational tools.
Get clarity on who and what you’re looking for, so you can get clear on your intention and direction
Identify negative dating patterns and create tools to get you unstuck
Get a dating app profile refresh! Improve your profile and swiping routine
Learn how to use dating apps as a tool, not an energy suck! Create a dating app strategy that reduces burnout + increases quality matches
Make an IRL dating plan that fits into your life and gets you out of your comfort zone
Week 5 though Week 8
Next, practice makes ~almost~ perfect!
You’ll start going on dates and learning how to embrace the slow burn in real time! Look for stability, not chaos.
We’ll chat about what felt good, what didn’t, and the game plan going forward.
Stay confident in the early stages of dating. Understand your deal breakers, advocate for your must-haves, and identify the qualities you need most in someone on dates.
Set date boundaries and regulate texting anxiety
Learn how to show vulnerability, meet people IRL, and know when someone is right for you… and when they're not.
Includes a FULL 1:1 dating app profile refresh!
Upon request, work directly with Stevie using result-proven techniques to create a dating profile that attracts the people you’re swiping for! Update photos, prompts, and how you screen profiles to find quality matches that turn into dates.
The results?
An actionable dating strategy for dating apps and IRL dating that not only makes dating feel manageable but the relationship you’re dating for inevitable!
Increase your dating confidence!
Prevent potential situationships
Minimize dating burnout
Navigate the early stages of dating
Advocate for your needs + intentions
Get clear on what you’re looking for
At the end of the 8-weeks, dating won’t feel impossible, but sustainable and enjoyable.
I know this works because I tested it first.
Hi, I’m Stevie! Certified Dating Coach, Author, and creator of Slow Burn Dating. A dating strategy sourced from my personal dating experience. Through trial and error, I learned which tools worked, which didn’t, and which dating habits must be personalized for each dater.
I was a late bloomer, a casual dater, a situationshipper. I even dabbled in some FWBs. But my transition to long-term dating is what allowed me to find the relationship I was looking for.
Though I was the original tester of the exercises I teach in the program, I was not its only source. The Slow Burn Dating method is backed by in-field research, International Coaching Federation coaching approaches, and client success stories.
Slow Burn Dating is a dating strategy that not only helps you navigate the early stages of dating but also continues to guide you as you build a relationship with someone.
This program is designed for growth.
PAY ONE TIME
$1,200
Pay in full
OR
PAYMENT PLAN
$600
Per month for 2 months
What you get access to:
~ 2 months of weekly 1:1 45 minute sessions with Stevie
~ A dating app profile refresh upon request
~ Between-session email support from Stevie for date prep, feedback, questions, and dating guidance
~ Actionable exercises and worksheets to use during and after the program
~ FOR LIFE access to dating resources, including IRL dating events and newsletters, community events, book recommendations, and dating app suggestions
A FREE 1:1 connection call with Stevie is required to personalize the program to your needs before you purchase!
FAQ
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Sessions are a safe space to work through dating challenges or situations. Each session begins with talking about your dating wins and/or your homework completed before the session. From there, we work through a current challenge or situation with perspective and mindfulness work. We create a personal goal and a realistic action plan for you to begin taking steps to work through the challenge. Throughout our sessions, you will develop new tools and shifting perspectives that help you develop stronger communication and advocacy skills.
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I am an ICF (International Coaching Federation) Trained and Certified Life Coach through the Academy of Creative Coaching. I received my Dating Coach Certification through Hart Coaching Academy.
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Client success is an accumulation of actions taken in their dating life and confidence-building. There is no guarantee that you will find your partner after a certain amount of time, or during our work together. However, I guarantee sessions will guide you to make decisions that will lead you to the relationship you’re dating for.
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Coaching is about taking action! Coaching helps you find the solution and develop an action plan to make your goals a reality. You will develop healthier dating practices and tools to help you overcome dating challenges, make choices that are best for you, and grow in confidence
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My sessions are primarily online via Zoom. However, I offer occasional in-person sessions when requested. I love meeting my clients in person and working with each individual to create a space that works best for them. If you’re interested in my in-person sessions, please let me know.
Not sure if the program is right for you?
Chat with Stevie anyway! It’s free to ask your questions and see if you’re a right fit for the program. Don’t want to chat 1:1? Email Stevie at stevie@thecityofdating.com.

