Every story is different. Read how our clients found success in our coaching programs and courses.
Rayna, 28
“While I was still single and actively dating, I felt like I had no focus and purpose behind what I was doing. I wanted to be in a relationship but needed to do more work on myself and also gain clarity into the type of relationship that I was looking for. That's where Stevie came in. During our session, Stevie guided me without pushing me and allowed me to focus on my needs without getting sidetracked. This focus gave me a great sense of purpose and control over my own dating narrative and truly opened me up to allow me to not only be in a relationship, but a thriving relationship. Stevie was nothing but professional and guided me to really understand my own needs and wants when it comes to dating. I truly encourage anyone on their own dating journey to seek out Stevie, you won't regret it!”
T, 32
“My overall experience has exceeded my expectations on so many levels.
I had six sessions total, and each one gave me at least one aha moment. My biggest breakthrough realized that I don't have to sit around waiting for guys to make the first move. I'd been carrying this belief since I was younger—after a bad experience, I convinced myself that women shouldn't pursue men because guys are hunters and they won't appreciate something that comes too easily. So while I've been an active go-getter in every other aspect of my life, I stayed extremely passive when it came to relationships. This approach doesn't work well for dating, especially in a city like New York. Through the coaching sessions, I realized that it's not only OK to be proactive and express my feelings, but that I can and should be selective and make intentional decisions about whom I want to see and date. My conversations with Stevie gave me greater confidence and made me reflect on my broader life goals, too.
What specific techniques or strategies did you find the most helpful during our sessions? There are so many! On top of my mind, these are the techniques and strategies that I found most helpful: 1) listing "who is he" and "who are we" and then building questions and conversation starters around these qualities, 2) practicing small talk with anyone I meet to build my social muscle, 3) journaling and listing reasons why I should not be with someone to clear my mental space, and 4) asking "why" questions instead of "what" questions to have deeper conversations.
For now, I've become more confident, I know better what type of man I want to be with, and I have the courage and determination to end things with the wrong ones to clear my mental space. I hope to share more good news soon!
I find Stevie to be very warm and encouraging, and her words are extremely wise. I had shared my relationship questions with friends in the past, but I've gotten some unhelpful or misleading advice. Being able to share my thoughts and confusion with Stevie, who is non-judgmental and confidential, was amazing.”
CR, 29
“I enjoyed it. In particular the first and last sessions around 'who she is' and IRL dating. Going through the process of the 'homework' was probably the most important aspect for me. Leading with curiosity is a useful principle! Especially for first dates and for interactions in general and avoiding burnout. The specific strategies I found most helpful was the 'Who is she' and also the leading with curiosity mindset. I did feel like it was an accountability mechanism so I signed up for more events in the desire to meet more people, and put more time on the apps.
W, 29
“I had some early skepticism about coaching but I am so glad I took a chance. Stevie has been incredible, quick to meet you where you are and help you get to where you want to go. Unlike other coaches, Stevie both is an adept listener and helps get you on the path you want to go on, not the one-size-fits-all path.
I struggle with negative self-talk and self esteem issues. Stevie has helped me look at myself in a positive light, allowing me to see myself for the 'real me'. In one session, Stevie had me spend time talking about what I like about myself, a previously daunting exercise that helped me unlock personal qualities that make me feel special.
Stevie gives me the floor to speak but is skilled at turning thoughts into insights and actionable steps. Stevie holds me accountable and pushes me to put my thoughts on paper when coming up with action plans.
Since I started working with Stevie, I have become much more adept at turning thoughts into actions and finding direction in my life. Instead of letting myself wallow, I have grown more resilient, able to remind myself of core objectives and who I want to be, and then transforming that into near-term activities and steps to get me out of my head and living an intentioned life.
I'd encourage Stevie to take the mic and speak more in our sessions since she has so much wisdom and has such strong influence in her words. Because she takes notes, deeply listens, and thinks deeply before she speaks, she has an uncanny ability to connect disparate points into an intricate and accurate insight.”
MC, 32
“This is my second experience working with a dating coach, and it’s been a really valuable one. Stevie has a way of being kind and thoughtful while also helping you uncover blind spots you might not see on your own. I always felt supported, but also challenged in the right ways.
One big “aha” moment was realizing how important it is to stay anchored in my values even when fear or scarcity around connection creeps in. That shift helped me see my patterns more clearly and respond to dating situations with more clarity.
I really appreciated how organized each session was. We always had a clear focus, and revisiting past goals made everything feel consistent and intentional. That structure helped keep me grounded and accountable. The scripts and language practice were especially helpful in navigating dating conversations with more clarity and confidence. I also found the role-playing and perspective reframing really useful; those moments helped things click in a way that felt real and actionable.
I'm still a work in progress, but I’ve noticed a real shift in how I manage dating burnout. Instead of giving up entirely, I’m learning how to pace myself and use strategies that make it feel more sustainable. It’s helped me stay in the game while staying true to my long-term goal of finding a real connection.
The coaching felt high-quality and intentional. [Stevie] brings a great balance of empathy, clarity, and structure to each session. I always felt heard and respected.”
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