We don’t believe in a rule book.
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Who are we?
We’re a dating wellness platform bringing life back to dating. Yes, we said dating wellness. It’s a thing! A healthy dating life starts with you. We don’t believe in a rule book. We date our way… not how society tells us to. Instead, we use open conversations about dating, relationships, and love to help people build a dating life that attracts honest, lasting connections that align with them.
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Our founder, your dating coach, and author on a mission to rewrite the dating narrative and encourage daters, like you, to build a dating life that leads to exploration and true connection.
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How can we help you?
Self-advocacy and communication are our secret ingredients to finding true connections. Our approach is designed to help you heal triggers, explore your needs, develop intentional tools, and mindfully take action to build authentic relationships that align with you. Tailored towards the early stages of dating and developing relationships, our coaching services provide a safe space for daters to build dating confidence and create dating tools that lead to the relationships they desire.
What is 1:1 dating coaching?
Dating coaching is a personalized space to realign with your needs, wants, and intuition, break dead-end dating patterns, and develop intentional self-advocacy and communication tools. It’s an opportunity to discover your unique path to the healthy relationship you deserve. Sans all the external noise!
Choose the program that fits
4 Week 1:1 Program
Create a Personalized Dating Toolkit
Reduce Dating Burnout & Gain Clarity + Direction
Build Communication Skills
Prioritize Your Dating Efforts for Best Results
Get Purpose-Driven Dates that Lead to Stronger Connections
8 Week 1:1 Program
Understand Your Relationship Goals & Intentions
Overcome Negative Dating Patterns
Build Communication Skills that Help You Build Healthy Relationships (Beyond Dating!)
Grow Dating Confidence & Self-Awareness
Create a Dating Plan for High Quality Connections
What our clients say…
Rayna, 28
“I wanted to be in a relationship but needed to do more work on myself and also gain clarity into the type of relationship that I was looking for. That's where Stevie came in. During our session, Stevie guided me without pushing me and allowed me to focus on my needs without getting sidetracked. This focus gave me a great sense of purpose and control over my own dating narrative and truly opened me up to allow me to not only be in a relationship, but a thriving relationship.”
W, 29
“I had some early skepticism about coaching but I am so glad I took a chance. Stevie has been incredible, quick to meet you where you are and help you get to where you want to go. Unlike other coaches, Stevie both is an adept listener and helps get you on the path you want to go on, not the one-size-fits-all path.
Since I started working with Stevie, I have become much more adept at turning thoughts into actions and finding direction in my life. Instead of letting myself wallow, I have grown more resilient, able to remind myself of core objectives and who I want to be, and then transforming that into near-term activities and steps to get me out of my head and living an intentioned life.”
MC, 32
“One big “aha” moment was realizing how important it is to stay anchored in my values even when fear or scarcity around connection creeps in. That shift helped me see my patterns more clearly and respond to dating situations with more clarity.”
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